Non-participants are simply failed control freaks. They don't believe in their ability to control the world, and since the prospect of living in it and not controlling it is unbearable, they decide to leave it.Easy-Breezy English пишет: ↑25 авг 2020, 13:53 But yet, not everyone who perceives the world as hostile and threatening is a control freak. There are other ways of dealing with the problem, ranging from hyperactivity to complete non-participation.
If they don't do that literally, by committing suicide, they confine themselves to their minds. They truly live only there, if anywhere at all. There is simply no more place to retreat. Actually even thoughts are too real, and they can't fully control even them, so the only way out is death, of course. But it simply destroys everything rather than solving the problem. Besides, killing oneself means messing with the world, which they have an aversion for. It means going out in the wild, in an uncontrollable area and doing something that has uncontrollable consequences. Even if you succeed with the suicide, you still don't know what will be after life and so, quite logically, you can't control it. But you absolutely have to. So you are absolutely stuck.
This craving for control stems from a deep distrust of everything and everyone that exists, including yourself as a part of this reality. And what you can't trust, you must control or run away from. What else can you do? Make friends with it? That would be ideal, but your distrust is the result of your failed attempts to do exactly that, so it's no longer an option. You just don't believe in it. It's too good to be real.